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The Three Myths About Dating Asian Women

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Something About Filipino Women For Marriage & Dating Online

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Tips – Increasing Penis Size – Faqs About Making The Penis Bigger Quickly And Permanently

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The reality about Single Russian Women

Posted on January 14th, 2011 by Johnny Wati  |  No Comments »

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Wish To Marry Ukrainian Lady? Time To Learn More About Ukrainian Marriage Traditions

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Seeking Russian Wives? What You Should Know About Russian Women Before Marrying One

If you are in a relationship with a Russian woman it can seem perfect at first. She seems to be everything you have been looking for, but that does not mean she is the perfect woman for you. Russian wives and Russian women are very different from other cultures. It takes a lot of time and understanding to know if the two very different cultures will work in a marriage.

I am married to a Russian woman. We have a very successful and happy marriage. She is everything that I have been looking for in my life. Yet there was a very long stretch of time added on to our relationship which I used to learn about her culture. It actually took me three years to learn how to understand and make our relationship work. In the words below, you are going to read about areas that can cause some international marriages and relationships to fail. Keep reading to find those key areas of the relationship that can affect your plans on marrying a beautiful Russian woman.

Russian marriage agencies continuously claim that Russian women make the best wives and if you want a lasting and happy marriage with a beautiful woman, Russian women are pretty much the only way to go. While this is very flattering to the women in the Russian culture, there are some areas of the Russian culture that may not fit in with the American way of life.

European and Russian women do provide a lot of happiness for Western men. And a large percentage of the time they do make a good match. Now keep in mind that Russian women are not perfect for every man. There are plenty of men that have found their flawless brides overseas and were very happy with them, yet this does not mean the same thing will happen for you.

Russian culture and mentality is different from Western, and you need to make sure you get familiar with it before getting into a relationship with a Russian woman. It will save you time, money, headaches and possibly a broken heart as well.

Russian woman are not going to be the best wives for men who cannot accept the idea of women loving their children more than their career. In Russian culture the expectation is for the woman to marry, have kids, but a career is not expected of them. Most women will sacrifice their career for the happiness of their husband and children.

For example, I know a family where the wife didn’t accept a promotion with a significant income increase simply because she knew that the position would require more hours at work, which would decrease time she would spend with her family. To a Russian woman, making more money is not as satisfying than quality time with her family. Of course, every situation is different and many Russian women (especially single with children) work extra hours to provide for themselves and their kids, but usually this is the case when the family is poor and is really struggling. And by “struggling” I don’t mean driving a Toyota instead of a Lexus and living in a three-bedroom house instead of a five bedroom house. “Struggling” in Russian terms is not making enough money to buy warm boots for winter or nutritious food.

In most instances, Russians are less materialistic than those from western countries. They don’t live to make money; they make money to live, so if you are expecting your Russian wife to spend most of her time making a career and just pop out a couple of kids in the meantime to let others raise them, then a Russian wife is not for you.

Don’t get me wrong. Russian women are hard workers and almost all have degrees from the university. Most Russian wives work outside of the home and mostly all work after their children are 3 years old or so, but keep in mind the career and money will always come second to her kids and husband.

Another reason Russian women are not the best fit for a western man, is no matter how great the women might be, marrying someone from another culture and with a different language is a very difficult thing to get through. If patience is not one of your strongest qualities, and your Russian woman’s English is still on the “basic” level, you may run into some serious challenges. It will not be easy for her to learn the language without your help. If instead of helping her you will be slamming doors loudly in frustration, it is not going to go well for either of you.

Russian-American couples (our family included) often face similar challenges. It is up to you to decide whether you are OK to face them or not, but the most important thing you need to do right now (if you haven’t already) is to decide what exactly it is that you want from your marriage and your relationship. If you learned enough about Russian culture and Russian women, you should be able to decide whether Russian women’s essence and mentality suits your needs and whether or not she will be the best match for you.

Take your time in your decisions, give the relationship time to grow and above all be true to your feelings about the relationship. If you feel the relationship is not solid, then do not move on to marriage. If you feel the relationship has grown and you understand each other, then that is your green light to move forward. For me and my wife, we knew the time was right after three years of getting to know each other. It was a lot of trips back n forth to her country, but in the end it really paid off.

I don’t recommend meeting a Russian woman one time and then filing for the K1 Visa. I know a lot of men like to do this, but you are only hurting your chances of a building a successful relationship and marriage. If it does not make sense to meet someone from your own country once and then immediately marry the woman, why would you do this with someone that is half way around the world? Take your time and enjoy the years of getting to know each other before jumping into marriage. In the end you will end up with a happier and healthier relationship for it.

Posted on October 22nd, 2010 by Johnny Wati  |  No Comments »

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Posted on September 16th, 2010 by Johnny Wati  |  5 Comments »

The Bare Truth About Men and Romance

Romance is mostly made of candlelight dinners, a bunch of red roses, champagne and surprise holiday getaways. Does this definition represent how both men and women perceive romance? It is interesting that men do not equate love and romance to such clinches. Men put more emphasis on the daily subtle romantic gestures to their women. Men and romance is a topic you need to understand especially if you are hoping to live with your soul mate for a very long time. You do not have to wait for valentine’s day for you to focus on romance, for serious lovers, every day is a loving day. The obligatory demo for love expected during valentine’s day won’t pass unhonored but it should not be restricted to only that day. Does your significant other impress you much or is a love card and a piece of chicken all you expect?

You must be feeling unlucky if you cross your fingers that he even remembers your birthday or even the significant valentine’s day. If you are in such a state, i am afraid you must be complaining of lack of romance in your relationship. Many women always have the opinion that it is men who always blow it up but as a woman, have you ever thought of sweeping him off his feet? Men and romance always want to be together so you should learn to romance your guy, otherwise he will go around looking for it. Men also are in need of romance so do not make him look like the nasty one in a relationship. They are ready to solicit for romance from anywhere it can be found.

The relationship between men and romance is a tight one. Lets look for instance at a case where the man wants to keep the romance alive by introducing new exciting sex styles. After a long period of being married romance tends to die in a relationship and a dedicated man might want his wife to do some sexual activities on him contrary to the wives wishes. The perception of many women is that the husband is turning them into prostitutes. It is sad that most of them might assume that extreme sex overtures are not for them. To romance your man best, do whatever he wishes provided it does not hurt you. Be aware that what you won’t submit to, your competitors are very ready to submit.

To men, romance is the ultimate demonstration of pure sensitivity and thoughtfulness. Men use romance to express love as is romancing is perceived to be the same as courting someone. Women expect all the loving from a man but they rarely reciprocate. Most of them are romance challenged. Women complain a lot since they have never understood the relationship between men and romance. He might have bought for you jewelry only once this year but he refills your gas cylinder every Sunday. He purchased for you a bunch of flowers only on valentine’s day but he gives you pocket money every week. This is romance at it’s best according to him and it is important to him because he sees it as courting which is a great part of every love story.

Posted on September 4th, 2010 by Johnny Wati  |  No Comments »